Meditation Basics Counting Breaths Is Not Like Counting Sheep

Meditation Basics: Counting breaths is not like counting sheep.

“Just close your eyes and count your breaths,” they say. How simple can it be? “Don’t think about anything else though. Just concentrate on your breathing.” Well, anyone who has tried this “simple” meditation knows that it just isn’t that easy.

There are many obstacles to this seemingly effortless task. Our minds tend to wander naturally. If we try to completely focus on anything for more than a few seconds, random thoughts take over. And breathing is boring; let’s face it. How can you concentrate on something so mundane when there are much more interesting things racing around in your head?

A typical session might go like this: I close my eyes, sit comfortably, and begin counting. Inhale one, inhale two, inhale… “Am I doing this right? I guess so, I’m already on… oh three.” Inhale four… “Now, am I supposed to start over at one or just keep going?” Inhale one, inhale two, inhale three, inhale four. “Wow, I’m really getting the hang of this. Oops.” Inhale one, inhale two… “Did I remember to pay the phone bill? I’m sure I did. I’m really good at staying on top of my bills. Not like Susan, she’s always… Darn, I did it again.” Inhale one, inhale two…

The good news is it does get better with practice. The bad news is it can still be a struggle for experienced meditators, especially during busy or turbulent periods in one’s life. Luckily, there is more good news. There are some specific things you can do to help you focus and reduce the frustration in your meditation practice. In this article, I would like to offer three tips to help you with your practice. They are: Observe don’t control, be compassionate, and enjoy yourself.

First, don’t force or try to control your breathing. This is a mistake that a lot of beginners make. Many inexperienced meditators consciously or unconsciously alter their breathing in an effort to focus on it. What results is an exaggerated and often irregular breathing pattern. This can actually inhibit your meditation rather than help it.

What you want to do is just “watch” your breathing. You don’t have to exert any additional effort at all. If you just wait and observe, you will breathe. Then, you can count. Of course, we all know this but many people still find themselves forcing it. If you catch yourself controlling your breaths, just gently remind yourself that it’s not necessary and then wait for the next breath to come naturally.

This brings me to the next tip, compassion. In this case I mean for yourself in your meditation practice. As we’ve been discussing, it’s not an easy thing to do to concentrate on one’s breath. It’s very important not to scold yourself when your mind wanders or you catch yourself controlling your breathing. If you think about it, the time you would spend reprimanding yourself for breaking your focus is just more time away from your meditation. It is best to softly bring yourself back to your practice as soon as you notice you’re wavering. Don’t get down on yourself and start thinking, “I can’t do this. This is never going to work for me.” These negative thoughts do nothing to help your practice and waste valuable time. Be compassionate. Just brush it off and return to your meditation.

Another way to look at these wanderings is to realize that they are an important part of your progression. Meditation is a skill. And like most skills, it requires practice. A baseball player doesn’t step into the batter’s box for the first time and start hitting home runs. He makes mistakes and corrections, and improves over time. He can then gauge his progress by the reduction of errors. Even after he is an experienced batsman, he will still strike out more often than he would like. But his hits should increase as well.

In your meditation practice, your mind will likely wander more in the beginning. But don’t give up. It will get better. Just like the baseball player, you will realize fewer mistakes over time and you will learn to recover from them more quickly. Sure, you will still have challenges and even slumps from time to time but you will also have more successes.

The final tip I would like to offer is to find enjoyment in your practice. Even though it may be tough at times, daily meditation can greatly enhance your life. Don’t rate yourself and expect to progress or improve to a particular degree or within a particular time-frame. Unlike baseball, mediation is a life-long experience. Remember, this is your time. Let it be your oasis not a chore. No matter what else is going on in your life, your meditation time can be your escape. As a Zen master once said, “It’s just you and your breath and then it’s just your breath.” Breathe in, breathe out, and forget about the world around you. Even when you’re busy or preoccupied with some problem, even if you can only find ten or fifteen minutes to be alone with your breath, enjoy it.

I hope these tips will help you to enhance your meditation experience. They have certainly proved to be invaluable in my own practice over the years. Of course I still struggle from time to time with the very same issues we’ve discussed here. But through observing rather than controlling, being compassionate to myself when I falter, and enjoying my special time alone; I have made my life fuller and happier.




Oriental Meditation: A Different Perspective

MEDITATION (I): THEORY

ALCHEMIC TRANSFORMATION IN MEDITATION

(Foreword: This is meant to be a practical hand book to meditation which explains some basic ideas and detailed instruction of meditation. The first part offers a general introduction to meditation through the comparison between chakra meditation in the Hinduism tradition and the internal breathing meditation in the ancient Chinese Taoist tradition. The second part focuses on the detailed steps of meditation. The forthcoming third part will extend the focus of discussion to the third eye and the spirituality. Thank you for your reading. —— September 2018 updated)

ALCHEMY IN DISGUISE

Although alchemy has long been heralded as the prototype of modern chemistry, its science-proved errors have never been able to dismantle its mystic shroud. However, the oriental tradition of spirituality still retain evidences that this encrypted esotericism is closely related to the practice of meditation. In addition to that, the parallelism between alchemy and meditation may even imply the fact that the latter anteceded the former. If we pursue this further, we may even conclude that that alchemy had long served as encrypted knowledge for meditation before it was taken away from the encrypted context with its misinterpretation being materialized in a pseudo science. Nevertheless, at a time when meditation is becoming more and more prevalent a practice in our highly industrialized world, it is inspiring that the decrypted context of alchemy may feed back to its original source and provide more in-depth insights to restore those still veiled elements of meditation.

DECRYPTED ALCHEMY AND MEDITATION

In terms of physics, alchemy is a process of transformation to convert gross heavy metals, such as lead, into higher noble metal like gold. In terms of spirituality, alchemy is the self-transformation in ascension to higher consciousness in the light of divinity. But how? Let’s bring it back to the context of meditation.

The encryption comes from a very familiar activity in the household—a very common event in every culture—cooking. Cooking by fire is the analogy that alchemy draws for its encryption. The base elements or food materials were put in a cauldron or any similar container to be cooked or heated and turned into something beneficial. There is also such a cauldron inside our body. It is in the lower abdomen called the “elixir field”—dan()-tian(). The stove that the alchemist uses is called the stove of “dan.” It is generally believed that its location is three-finger wide below and two-finger deep behind the belly button, approximately in the lower abdomen between the belly button and the kidneys. This is the base of alchemy and meditation (also aliased as “internal alchemy” in Taoist tradition). In either Indian or Chinese tradition, meditation is basically practiced in the sitting position with two legs crossed in imitation of wood piled under the stove/cauldron to stabilize it for heating. That’s why it is usually advised to sit 1.5 to 2 inches from the ground surface to ensure the “wood piles” are placed lower than the bottom of the stove/cauldron. Otherwise, the seed of (kundalini) flame would be buried under and muffled by the wood logs (legs). It is more than coincidental that both the chakra theory and the Taoist tradition associate this base area of root chakra/lower dan-tian with the color of red. The seven chakras start from the red chakra at the base with each of the higher chakras corresponding respectively to the other colors of the rainbow. In addition to its reference to the cinnabar ball of elixir, the denotation of dan in Chinese is also red color. It’s quite a natural phenomenon that fire is always assigned the color of redness. The other coincidence is that both traditions portray this base as four-partitioned—four petals in the case of chakra image and four squares in the hieroglyphic character of tian, (field). However, the differentiation between these two traditions spreads out also from here.

While in the Hinduist tradition, the seven chakras align along the central channel (sushumna), going up from the base chakra to the crown chakra approximately along the spine, the Chinese Taoist meditation practice envisions two channels forming a circle, the ren channel and the du channel, both of which are actually connected instead of two independent channels. The ren channel, or “following channel,” goes down from the nose along the chest and abdomen to the bottom. It pretty much follow the path of our deep breath. The du channel, or “governing channel,” starts from where the ren channel stops and goes up in our back along the spine to the top of our head, and then descends to the nose, where air enters our body, making a full cycle of the flow of qi or prana, the refined energy. Ostensibly, these two versions of the energy path have quite big differences, such as the one being a process of rising while the other of a circle. In actuality, they are just two templates for the one and the same human physical body. The ultimate function and goal of both are pretty much the same in the end—to cook the base elements inside our body and transform them into the highest form of energy for our existence.

CHAKRA TEMPLATE AND INTERNAL BREATHING TEMPLATE

Internal Breathing Meditation: It’s easy to map out the template by tracing the route of breathing because it is the most basic activity of life in everyone. The Chinese character of ren means “follow.” In the channel of ren, we just let it follow where the air, or qi, goes in breathing. When it goes down to the nadir and rises along the du channel, you start to govern it and guide it along the spine until it reach the zenith. The advantage of the Taoist internal breathing template goes further that once this so-called “micro-celestial cycle” is achieved, it can further connect to the 12 ordinary meridians, each of which spreads out along its own route to channel the energy to congruent organs and systems inside our body, with many portals (acu-points) along its route. These portals work like micro-chakras as a nexus subject to the energy from within and without the body. If they are blocked, the energy flow will be weakened or disrupted and the biological functions in correspond to the congruent organs or systems will be impaired. In addition to these 12 involuntary and physically-oriented circulation meridians, the Taoist template also envisages 8 extraordinary channels which are voluntary and controllable energy routes and are spiritually oriented. In addition to the ren channel and du channel, there is also the central channel, the 4 limb channels as well as the belt channel. The micro-celestial cycle can be extended to these six extraordinary channels and achieve some other auxiliary spiritual capabilities. For example, the right and left foot channels may activate the sole portals called “fountain gurgle acu-point,” which may pulsate when stepping on energy-charged spots, and connect them all the way to the crown portal allowing the energy to come through from the roof of the head and exit from the soles. The portal in the center of the palm, called “labor-chamber acu-point,” also does the same work as the foot sole portals. The palm center can also work like scanner to sense and evaluate energy fields. In addition to the palms, the ten finger tips, “ten outlet” acu-points, can also be used as energy transmitters. The energy beam thus transmitted can be as concentrated as laser beams and visible even to naked eyes. The mudra (hand gesture) actually provides a template for the energy field of the hand and fingers to perform a particular energy function.That’s why in standard meditation, either the chakra meditation or the Taoist internal breathing meditation, hands and fingers are joined and legs crossed so that the inner energy may flow in closed circulations within the body instead of leaking out from these hand and foot portals. The complete circulation throughout this framework which is mapped out by the channels and meridians is called the “macro-celestial cycle,” which is believed to culminate in immortality, i.e. the elixir (dan) for immortality.

Chakra Meditation: At first look, the internal breathing meditation is very quite different from chakra meditation, for the template of chakra meditation seems relatively simple and postulates seven energy centers or nexuses along the central channel, each of which corresponds not only to the biological functions of certain anatomical organs and endocrine systems in reciprocal area but also to the psychosomatic development in progressive phases. In general, the chakra meditation follows the alignment of the seven chakras along the central channel. Each of the seven chakras corresponds to a phase of psychological development and some physical functions. The first energy nexus is the root of existence. Its corresponding psychosomatic function is the survival and preservation of the existence itself. If the energy field in this chakra is weak or too strong, the person will show no will or unaggressive will to fight for the basic need of survival. The second chakra corresponds to a person’s growth of emotional self. After the safety of existence is secured, emotional desires flow out in positive or negative proportion to the relationship with the object of desires. Weak energy field in this chakra is manifested in dependency or inability to establish relationships, while overly strong energy field may lead to impulsiveness and ignorant passions regardless of the feeling of the other people involved. The energy field of solar plexus witnesses the rise of reason (the solar power of the sun) in the horizon of ocean of emotions. Weak energy in this chakra features low-confidence and indecision, while immoderate energy leads to control freaks and self-centered mentality. While the intellectual ego is fully developed in the solar chakra, both the existential ego in the root chakra and the emotional ego in the second chakra are suppressed below the horizon into the ocean of subconsciousness and unconsciousness. The heart chakra in the midway of the channel is the culmination of an mature ego not in terms of self-center fortification but in terms of transpersonal empathy. It is the crucial point between the lower three chakras and the upper three ones. The first three chakras are basically concerned with the introverted development within one’s own existence. They are autistic and featured by self-absorption, while the heart chakra is capable of expansion, opening up its energy field for unconditional communication and non-egocentric interaction with the world outside. The pivotal significance of this midway chakra lies in the fact that the more progressively expanded is its energy field, the more encompassing it is to fulfill the spirituality of the higher chakras. In other words, it is the foundation for the three higher chakras in the head. The underdevelopment of the heart chakra not only falls short of transpersonal empathy but also falls back to the lower chakras and forms fixations in the overactive functions of those three chakras. The worse scenario is the vacuum effect caused by the absence of the energy to be supplied from the solar chakra, which may turn one to absorb the heart energy from other people in contact. Such a person may passively receive other people’s energy from the heart chakra and feel other people’s emotions or feelings without resistance. In contrast, telepathy functions on the basis of expanded energy field of the heart, which works like the radar to imprint the condition of the other person’s heart energy. It is powered by the active energy already processed by the solar chakra so that the sense data such a mind picks up can be processed by a rational ego without being lost in the emotion passively received.

The upper three chakras are very closely related with each other. They are basically spiritually oriented. The throat chakra actually covers not only our vocal organs but also our audible organs. This bilateral function elevates the expansive nature of the heart chakra to a higher level of reciprocity in nature. We need a mirror in order to see ourselves, but we can talk and hear ourselves simultaneously because vocalization is the only function made by our organ that can be perceived by another organ of ours. This can happen not only in external environment but also inside of ourselves, which deepens the function of the heart chakra in an inner reciprocal mode of dialogue by internalizing the outside, and further expands the empathetic interpersonal dimension of the heart chakra in its inner arc. More than that, since the ear is located at the same level of the eye chakra, the vibrations that it receives will also be reflected in the energy field of the eye chakra. For example, we don’t always recognize an old friend by hearing his voice. We pretty much recognize him by the image that his voice strikes up in our mind. Due to the overlapped energy field, the spiritual sense of hearing always forecasts or accompanies the opening of the third eye. The eye chakra also carries this reciprocality further into the metaphysical level. While the reciprocity of the throat chakra is employed in the mental dimension where the inner dialogue is held between the subject of ourselves and the object that we internalize, the eye chakra serves to externalize the spirituality that is innate in our souls—the third eye vision. We will talk about this exclusively in Part III. In short, while the lower chakras work their respective functions in a linear process, the upper three chakras work as a clustered core on the shared energy field in the sphere of the head, where most of our sense organs are located. That’s why in darkness where our sight fails to work, we count more on our reaction to sound, we greet people by calling out their names immediately after we see them, and a shrew person will speedily and skillfully dodge a ball flying to his head through the instant reaction from his integrated senses in the head. These three upper chakras not only constitute our intelligence and command our physicality, but also incubate our spirituality, such as the third eye, spiritual hearing, the sixth sense and other ESPs as well as astra projection, and the like. The crown chakra is the portal where the soul enters and exits the human body. Once the subtle energy reaches the the crown chakra, the communication with alternative dimensions becomes possible. Basically, the crown portal is the spiritual mechanism related to the soul, astral body, and life and death.

Complementary Practice:The most general misconception about chakras is taking each chakras as an independent energy center and focusing on solving its blockage. As a matter of fact, no chakra is really blocked as long as a person is alive. Each chakra is an energy nexus which functions to process the energy in its corresponding psychosomatic domain. However, the dynamics of the seven chakras consists in the subtle energy flows among these chakras in the central channel. The chakras are not isolated from each other. Instead, they are interconnected by the central channel like seven different flowers on the same branch drawing the water they need through the same channel. The energy flow itself from the root to the top is the very basis for chakra functions. When the energy flows from one chakra to the next higher one, it doesn’t displace or hollow out the preceding chakra. Instead, the refined energy fulfills and stabilizes the preceding chakra’s physical and psychological functions while flowing in rise to the next higher chakra. If a chakra is overcharged with the energy, it will become overactive in its functioning in the corresponding psychosomatic field, with less refined energy available to flow further into the next chakra; on the other hand, if the chakra is undercharged, the energy will not only become too weak to fully activate the chakra spinning and carry out the psychosomatic balance of the chakra, but also bypass to the next higher chakra making it overactive. That’s why in many cases, the cause of the imbalance of a certain chakra might not be in itself but in the insufficient or overcharged energy in the preceding or following chakra or chakras. As a matter of fact, the seven chakras make up an ecosystem of subtle energy. Any issue of any chakra bear effects on the other chakras as well as the entire energy system. That’s why kundalini rise is so important and necessary in yogic meditation. Kundalini is usually depicted in a metaphor of serpent-like heat rising up from the root chakra rising awake from slumber. Again, it is encrypted in the metaphor of spiritual snake, but the concept of kundalini is somewhat shrouded with such mystified effects that more often than not it leads to confusion rather than clarification. To put it back to the deciphered context of alchemy, the base elements that our body has absorbed are processed in the cauldron of the lower abdomen where the energy is refined and transformed into refined energy and rise along the central channel. Since each person’s physical temperament is different, the experience of awakened kundalini also differs in accordance with the person’s general health condition. If a person’s congenital energy is flimsy and tenuous, the streaming of this awakened subtle energy may become a powerful and vibrant experience as it is passing through the channel and breaking through each under-developed chakra. Once it is broken through, the energy will fluently flow to each chakra to be further refined until it reaches the crown chakra. On the other hand, in the case of an athletic person whose physical vitality is already highly active in the central channel due to regular exercises and training, the kundalini experience may feel no more than a gush of heat rising from the root chakra. The correct and safe way to arouse kundalini is through the practice of meditation so that the refined energy can be sensed rising like an uncoiling snake winding up through the central channel to spin each watermill-like chakra while passing through and fulfill the corresponding physical and mental functions of each chakra until it has thus reached the crown and bring about the comprehensive spiritual transformation of the person. In Chinese internal breathing tradition, the process is analogized as water mill in reverse direction. The underlying theory behind this process of spiritual transformation is that each living being is the offspring from the origin of universal energy, Tao, Brahman, God, or the Supreme Being, whatever the honored name is used for naming, which descends from the ultimate transcendental realm of numinous world through a process of differentiation and materialization like the light going through a prism and breaking down into a spectrum of varied colors. In Taoist ideas, this transcendental spiritual light is materialized into three different levels or manifestations in the human existence: the spiritual level where the soul is manifested in shen (divinity or spirituality), the mental level where human mental and emotional fluctuations reside in the manifestation of qi (the primal energy), and the physical level where the human body works and functions in the element of jing (essence). The essential foundation of the Taoist meditation consists in this delicate reverse engineering “to refine the material essence into subtle energy and then convert the subtle energy back to the spirituality.” The converter of the material essence is located in the lower dantian (lower abdomen), the refiner of the subtle energy is in the middle dantian (the heart) and the transformer of the spirituality is located in the upper dantian (the third eye). In the final analysis, we can see that the Taoist energy transformation process is basically parallel to the kundalini transformation. Both the yogic tradition and the taoist school start from the seed of “fire” in the lower abdomen. While the flame is kindled, the base element in our body is cooked in the cauldron and converted into sublimation form of subtle energy, qi or prana. When this sublimated air or qi is condensed in the upper dantian, it is transformed into spiritual light in the third eye.

Tantric tradition of meditation generally follows the theory of chakras and channels and proposes three seed flames, called bindu (light spots), in the similar locations of the three dantian. In addition to that, it carries the alchemic analogy of cooking further to the point of comparing the crown (chakra) to the cover of the caldron, where the steam (transformed kundalini heat) from the cooking meets the cool air outside the cover and condenses into dew drops to shower on the heated body as a spiritual baptism. Although all of these three meditation practices preach pretty much the same spiritual transformation process inside our body, each has different descriptions about the transcendental experience beyond the crown (chakra) and tapers to their respective religious contexts in their historical development. However, it is Jesus Christ who most precisely and succinctly concluded this spiritual transformation when he referred to it as the “baptism with fire and Holy Spirit.”

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What Does It Mean To Self Improve

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Self Improvement has become mainstream. In the last few years, since I have been writing articles and submitting them to article sites, I’ve noticed that the category of “Self Improvement” has been showing up lately when it was never there before. To me, this is very good news.

But what does it really mean to “Self Improve?” What are we really improving when we self-improve? And what “self” are we improving?

We each have two “selves” – our wounded self and our core Self. Our core Self is our true self, our natural soul-self – our essence. Our core Self is our passion, our joy, our gifts and talents, our ability to love, our creativity. We come into this life as our core Self, and when this Self is loved and valued by our parents, we continue to naturally grow our God-given gifts and talents and manifest the fullness of our beings. This Self wants to improve by learning the skills necessary to fully express itself.

But when this Self is not seen and valued in the way we needed, we create an alternative self, a self we hope will have control over getting the love we need and avoiding the pain we can’t handle – a self to help us feel safe. This is our false self, our wounded self, our ego-self. This self is filled with the false beliefs that we absorbed as we were growing up – beliefs that end up limiting our true, core Self. This self does not needs improving – it needs healing.

The term “self-improvement” can sometimes be a bit misleading, because we do not want to improve our wounded self. We do not want to improve on the ways we lie, manipulate, and avoid in our attempts to have control over getting love and avoiding pain. We don’t want to improve on our many addictions to substances and processes. We don’t want to improve on our anger, our compliance, our withdrawal, and our resistance.

We want to heal it.

Healing and improving is not the same thing.

We can certainly self-improve when it comes to skills. We can improve in sports, art, music, writing, cooking. We can improve our health and wellbeing by improving our diet and exercise program. We can improve in the knowledge we need to be more successful regarding work and money. We might be able to improve our relationships by learning new communication skills. But what if acquiring new knowledge and skills does not improve our health, or our ability to earn money or our relationships? And what if learning new skills does not bring us more joy and inner peace? It may mean that we need to heal the underlying fears and false beliefs that cause us to be anxious, depressed, stressed, guilt-ridden, shamed, withdrawn, angry, blaming, or sad.

Sometimes Self Improvement just means practicing a skill, and other times it means that we need to participate in a deep healing process. For example, many people try to improve their health by losing weight and exercising. But if their food addictions are covering over unhealed pain, they might not be able to just change their diet. They might need to open to a healing process in order to eventually improve.

If you are really trying to self-improve but find yourself stuck and unable to progress or find that you have no joy or inner peace, you might want to open to the possibility that unhealed pain and beliefs are blocking your progress and causing your pain. It is easy to improve yourself when there is nothing blocking the way. But if you have old false beliefs about your adequacy and worth, these beliefs may be blocking your ability to take loving action on your own behalf. All your efforts to self improve will not bring you the satisfaction you are seeking if you have beliefs that are keeping you limited in fully expressing your true, core Self. If you are stuck, then you need to seek out a healing process, such as the Inner Bonding process we teach, that will move you out of the fears and beliefs that limit you. Healing these fears and limiting beliefs will open the door to improving your life in all ways!

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